Dreams and actions

My secrets...every morning I wake up with the dream that I will make money and find a nice, pretty, girl to share my life with.

Yet I choose to act on a whim, on impulse.

My life drifts away into marijuana and late nights dreaming of a pretty, skinny, blonde haired girl that I couldn't even begin to describe.

My initial waking thought is to get up and do something about it. For some reason I know this girl isn't anywhere near me. I imagine her in a nice place like chicago or possibly she is visting a exotic foreign country like a tropical island.

The fact that I would spend my life with one girl is quite appalling to most I know.

She only exists in my mind, in my thoughts. Leftovers of a girl I once loved.

Behind all of my irrational thoughts is this pure, innocent, sweet life waiting me to change...I've been looking for change for a long time. Except for the highlights my life is quite a disgusting place to be.

I think everyone could really use a positive change...some thing to enlighten them..to really make them think "wow...I AM alive!"

So, are you going to spend your life dreaming of something, or really do something about it? What are your desires really?

When I was a bit younger I used to dream all the time about where my life was going to go - What Uni I was going to go to, where I was going to live, who I was going to be with, so on and so on. But now I have goals more than anything, stuff that I want to achieve. Things like saving enough money before I start Uni or getting a car.

When I was little I used to dream of being a Marine and wearing the Dress Blue uniform.

Check.

Now I dont tend to dream at all, so I guess I am doing good.

Heh, I have a different problem. I don't know what my dreams are. I've been so afraid to let life drift away from me like you said that I've been stuck in one place for a hell of a long time.

Dreams?What are the point of dreams if you never achieve them?
How can you be unsure of your dreams?Uncertainty is the worst thing in the world,so get over it.
Dreams are a waste of time.
There are 2 different types of people-dreamers and actors,some people just dream,some actually get things done.

Does anyone have dreams that they've had before? I don't know, I think I keep having the same dreams, but I can't seem to remember them when I wake up. I just get this strange feeling like I've had that dream before. Or I'll have deja-vu, but I think I remember something like that happening in a dream.

I've been having a lot of dreams lately, and they usually have to do with something I was thinking about or doing that day. Do dreams have anything to do with our real lives? Or am I just weird?

V - I read this somewhere...no idea if it works or not. If you want to remember your dreams leave little notes around your room (or wherever it is that you do your sleeping) that say things like 'Am I Dreaming' and 'Remember My Dreams'. After a few days you wont really notice these notes anymore but it will still be reenforcing your subconscience. Supposedly this will help.

Thanks Don, I'll have to try that. Right when I wake up, I always get this feeling like I'm still dreaming. Maybe I am, because I never really know what's going on for a while.

Does anyone not remember if something happened in a dream or reality? I get that all the time.

i know what you mean,that happens to me alot and trust me it's really not good when you ask people about things that have'nt happened,it's reallllly embrassing